Poem written for PDA Action Day 15th May 2018

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PanDA, me & I

The flip side of me

Is a Panda you see

Its not double trouble

But sure is a struggle

Understand the whole me

Include Panda I plea

Coexistence we strive

To help us all thrive

But Rolling resistance

Best describes our existence

Don’t say to us ‘NO’

Or Panda will blow

Too much long chatter

Just sounds like a clatter

It helps to have choice

So allow us a voice

Communication break-down

Why must we drown?

In opinions so strong

We want to belong

A N X I E T Y free

Is the magical key

A formula to master

If not then sadly disaster!

Panda, me & I

Isn’t a pie in the sky

Excluded from schools

Panda struggles with rules

Being left-out is a sin

We want to join in

Restrain us they say

They’re unable to play

Frustration to take part

Having friends is an art

Anger is what’s seen

But that’s not what we mean

Our rules aren’t the same

Please try not to blame

Its unfair being this way

Wearing this mask everyday

Judgment, cross faces

Confusion & strange places

Take us from here

And remove all of this fear

Tippy toeing not necessary

Parental vocabulary

We need the control

Or becomes a sinkhole

What’s important for you

Might be a battle to choose

No it’s not so absurd

Panda needs to be heard

Help panda, help me

Then you will all see

In order to succeed

Understand don’t impede

Pre-empt & distraction

To soothe Pandas reaction

Information needs time

Slow processing isn’t a crime

Indirect instruction creates

Direct demand devastates

Panda may often be wrong

Avoidance obviously strong

Acceptance of us is a must

Over time it builds up our trust

Empower us to fully function

Minimise our fear of destruction

So keep all this in mind

And then you will find

A better day will unfold

Thank you, our story is now told.

 

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👉 What to reply when told PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) does not exist/is not recognised in your area 👈 By Planet Autism

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👉 What to reply when told PDA (pathological demand avoidance) does not exist/is not recognised in your area 👈

A clinician can diagnose a condition which is evident before them, it does not need to be in diagnostic manuals to do so, the manuals are about allocating diagnostic codes to descriptions of conditions. Having said that, PDA as an ASD, is present in diagnostic manuals as an ASD diagnostic code. For the DSM-V it would be diagnosed as ASD as they diagnose all ASDs under one umbrella now, DSM-V code 299.0 (autism spectrum disorder). For the ICD it would be either (ICD10 F84.0 (autistic disorder), F84.8 (Other pervasive developmental disorders) or F84.9 (Pervasive developmental disorder, unspecified), but noted on diagnostic reports as ASD-PDA subtype, ASD-PDA profile, ASD with demand avoidance profile etc.).

PDA is a specific profile of behaviours and is an ASD. You cannot deny a profile of behaviours exist! It does constitute an ASD subtype which isn’t individually mentioned in the diagnostic manuals – yet. But it’s looking likely that the ICD11 will follow with the DSM-V diagnosing all ASDs under one umbrella, so from that perspective it’s irrelevant. However, PDA does need different strategies and support.

This is why there is a DfE endorsed educational guidance document:

“The Distinctive Clinical and Educational Needs of Children with Pathological Demand Avoidance Syndrome: Guidelines for Good Practice”
http://www.aettraininghubs.org.uk/…/5.2-strategies-for-teac…

Read this excellent article by Dr Judy Eaton (consultant clinical psychologist with years of experience in NHS and private sector, expert in ASD as well as PDA): https://help4psychology.blogspot.co.uk/…/back-to-school-for… she explains very well how families suffer when LAs and NHS take this attitude of PDA not existing and clearly states that PDA does exist.

https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/education/teachers-guide

“Informs local authorities and schools about the importance of providing support and using appropriate PDA strategies and interventions.”

There is a growing body of research about PDA:

https://www.pdasociety.org.uk/resources/published-articles

https://sites.google.com/site/lizonions/publications

“Identifying features of ‘pathological demand avoidance’ using the Diagnostic Interview for Social and Communication Disorders (DISCO)”
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4820467/

Point out that if the Department for Education recognises it, that’s central government and that should be enough. The NAS recognises it and they are the UKs major autism charity which is government funded. www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx

Look on the NHS England website for your area’s Sustainability and Transformation Plan (STP) www.england.nhs.uk/stps/view-stps/ and see if your local plan says anything about making care uniform across the region, losing the postcode lottery, improving varied care etc. because there may be a town in your area which recognises PDA and another that doesn’t. You can use this information as the STP covers everything, including mental health issues.

Have answers for every denial they offer. Don’t passively accept what they say, a lot of it is based in ignorance.

Known NHS areas that have diagnosed PDA (there will be others):

Kilmarnock, Ayreshire and Arran, Scotland
Stratford-upon-Avon, Warwickshire
Stroud, Gloucester, Gloucestershire
Bradley, Stoke, Staffordshire
Liverpool, Merseyside
Todmorden, Lancashire
Sheffield, Yorkshire
Stourport-on-Severn, Worcestershire
Hawley, North Hykeham, Lincolnshire
Wolverhampton, Midlands
Nottingham, Midlands
Northampton, Midlands
Lincoln, Midlands
Birmingham, Midlands
Bristol, Avon
Slough, Berkshire
Reading, Berkshire
East Sussex
Andover, Hampshire
GOSH (NHS) London
Guildford, Surrey

Why did my PDA son have to fail in five schools before I was listened to?

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This post is with our huge thanks to:
Special Needs Jungle – http://www.specialneedsjungle.com
for their continued support in raising the profile of Pathological Demand Avoidance Syndrome.

Why did my PDA son have to fail in five schools before I was listened to?

#PDA Awareness Day- Sunday 15th May 2016

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PDA Awareness Day is Sunday 15th May (thats this weekend:-)

As its National Limerick Day today I thought Id make up a little limerick for Sunday… If you like it, please feel free to share especially on PDA Sunday x

Autism they said is like Rainman
PDA they said is naughty kid syndrome
They have closed minds bound by fear
and would rather we all just disappear.

Judgemental faces they simply cannot relate
Instructing us to medicate & sedate
They really don’t want to understand
Nor will they ever try to lend a hand.

Don’t look down on us with expression so glum
We simply march to the beat of our own drum
My last point for your personal reflection
is wake up people, we are all on the spectrum!

PDA Awareness Day Wednesday 15th May 2013

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 Thanks to Graeme Storey for creating this wonderful resource page ahead of PDA Awareness Day 15th May – http://www.thepdaresource.com

PDA awareness day – 15th May 2013

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PDA awareness day - 15th May 2013

BIG NEWS: 15th May 2013 lets raise awareness and acceptance and offer support for the whole family

PDA conference slides

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http://uk.search.yahoo.com/r/_ylt=A7x9QV4SDSBRUQUAMHxLBQx.;_ylu=X3oDMTE2czBjOW9pBHNlYwNzcgRwb3MDMTAEY29sbwNpcmQEdnRpZANTTUVVSzIyXzg0/SIG=15ios6bjl/EXP=1361083794/**http%3a//www.autism.org.uk/~/media/NAS/Documents/News-and-events/NAS-conferences/Pathological-Demand-Avoidance/PDA-Conference-Plenary-session-Phil-Christie.ashx